Here’s to all those girls who used to be his number one. The one who waited all night for him to call or text, only to check their phone the next morning and be disappointed. The ones who made it through that bitter break up, dried your own tears, and moved on with your life, only to have him walk back in it a month later like nothing ever happened. Those of you who cried on the first day you talked again because you knew exactly where this was going but weren’t strong enough to stop it. The ones who listened to him say, I only want to be your friend, one day, and the next listen to him say how much he loves and misses you. We deserve something, and this is out tribute. Here’s to the ones that took him back, hoping that maybe this time he was different, hoping that maybe people really do change. We listen to out friends tell us that we were stupid for even thinking about giving him another chance, caught crap from our parents, and even snuck around to see him for a while. We went through the great stage with no fighting. We started this out thinking it would be just friends, and ending up falling in love with him all over again we wanted nothing more in the world than for him to tell us he loved us too, even though things were bad in the past, things would be different this time. And when we finally heard it, it was like we were dreaming, this is for us. Here’s to the one’s who believed every word he said, sat around all over again waiting for a phone call or a text that might come in a few hours or in a few days. Here’s to the tears cried and dries over again. We wanted so desperately to believe he really was busy, he couldn’t possibly call us at that moment, or even he fell asleep early. We trained ourselves to believe lies because we wanted to believe we found the one for us. We learn to SETTLE for someone who didn’t treat us the way we should be treated. Here’s for the ones who did their hair and make up and put on their prettiest outfit, only to hear him say he couldn’t see us today. The ones who never believed when people when people told us we could do better. We just couldn’t believe that he could do this to us again. This is for the great girls who loved him more than words can say, and took him back no matter what happened last time because they couldn’t bear to look back on their lives one day and wonder “what if”. This is for the girls who stayed up all night long listening to him whine about an ex girlfriend he still loved, and cried during the entire conversation. The ones who hoped he would realize that he deserved better, that he deserved us. When he said that he loved you, but we found out he was in love with her. This is for the ones who held on to something that was never there to being with. This is for us girls, who somehow managed to forget about her, and waited for him to tell us that he was in love with us again, only to have him tell us three weeks later that “things were going to fast, he needs time”. Here’s to the girls who couldn’t cry to there friends because of how stupid they felt. This is for the wasted wishes we made at 11:11. This is for the ones who held in all in when It came crumbling to pieces again. This is for the one who could bear to tell their moms what was going on, for the fear of an “I told you so”. The ones that could just tell they had mad a mistake of ever letting him into their hearts, and their dreams again. We knew that we deserved better the entire time, that we deserved a guy would call us when he said he was going to, one who would come see us whenever he got a chance, the one that would really care about us .we just wanted the one we loved like that. Here’s for the ones that finally realized that he never gave a shit about them. Here’s for the time he broke you heart again. This is for the days spent trying to hold back the tears that turned into anger then disappointment. This for those confusing days, when you missed him and want nothing more than to hear his voice or feels his arms around your waist. Stay strong and remember that relationships are like broken glass, it’s better to leave it a alone then to try putting the pieces back together and get hurt. Remember the times you got cried and how long it took you to even look at another guy like that. When “your song” comes on the radio change the station. When the day comes that he realizes what a mistake he made and tires calling you, turn your phone off. When he tries texting you ignore it. When he tires coming to your house don’t answer. If he brings you flowers burn them, think of the broken promises and the lies, the manipulation and the tears, the wasted moments and staying up all night wondering where the fuck he was. Think of how your heart used to jump when you phone would vibrate in the middle of the night, and how it fell to your stomach when you saw it wasn’t him, and realize that once again, he hadn’t called when he said he was going to. One day you’ll find a guy who’s worth all the tears, but he wont make you cry, you may think that you’ll never care about someone like you did that guy that you always ran back to. But you will. Its going to hurt like a bitch and its going to need time to heal but the point is, it will heal. This is for those girls who fell back in love with their ex, only to get hurt again.